Female Characters on the Show

[Eviebae]

It seems to me you are hypersensitive about the flaws of the female characters, but overlook the portrayed flaws of the male characters.

Hypersensitive or just sensitive?
As in, aware of stuff you might not be?

It's possible to have blind spots with regards to character dynamics without being sexist/evil/mean--just look up gender bias in the classroom. Inequalities of all types can be so culturally ingrained that they are invisible. Nice/good people can be "programmed" with expectations and feel really uncomfortable/unhappy when those expectations are fiddled with.

Point is, no matter if you are a male or female, you may not see it and you may not wish to see it. Try talking about it without shutting her down or denying her outright.